The media, society in general, and people all throughout your lives will tell you what they think you should be thinking, or what they think you should be doing, and how they think you should be doing it.  They might be extremely persuasive and insistent, but I encourage you to have faith in yourselves, to follow your own intuition and hearts, and to do whatever it is that makes you happy in the long run, as long as it’s done with kindness to others. Jonathan R. Tuck Ph.D.